How Matchmaking
Works

Our professional matchmaking method evaluates 47 scientific compatibility criteria across 8 key dimensions:

1. Fundamental values ​​(family, children, religion, ambition)

2. Personality (introversion/extroversion, conflict management, emotional expression)

3. Life project (family calendar, location, professional ambitions)

4. Communication style (frequency of contact, depth, need for space)

5. Lifestyle (social life, sports, food, travel, hobbies)

6. Intimacy and affection (libido, love languages, exclusivity)

7. Practical compatibility (finances, tasks, in-laws)

8. Chemistry and attraction (physical, intellectual, emotional connection)

We only present you with candidates who have 85%+ compatibility on the criteria that matter MOST to you. We’re not looking for perfection, but for real, lasting compatibility based on scientific psychology.

The typical timeline for the matchmaking process is:

– Week 1-2: Complete psychological assessment (3 hours) + definition of criteria

– Weeks 3-6: Dedicated active search (20-30 hours) in our exclusive network of 5,000+ verified profiles

– Weeks 5-8: First qualified presentation

Average time to first appointment: 4-6 weeks from initial assessment

Average time to find a stable partner: 4-8 months (3-6 introductions)

89% of our clients in Barcelona and Madrid find a serious partner in less than 12 months, compared to only 12% on dating apps.

Each candidate goes through 5 layers of verification before any presentation:

1. Mandatory face-to-face interview (2-3 hours) with a registered psychologist + ID verification

2. Professional verification: Verified LinkedIn profile, current company, financial solvency

3. Personal references: Minimum 2 verified contacts (friends, ex-partners)

4. Background: Search of public records, social networks, delinquency

5. Psychological evaluation: Personality test, emotional availability, red flags

Guarantee: If you discover that someone lied about something verifiable (marital status, children, job, age), that submission does NOT count towards your fee.

Zero fake profiles. Zero ghosting. 100% real people committed to serious relationships.

A lack of initial chemistry is normal. Only 30% of first dates have “instant chemistry”.

Our post-appointment protocol:

1. In-depth analysis 24-48 hours later: What worked? What didn’t? Was there minimal attraction?

2. Feedback from the other candidate as well

3. Joint decision: Second date? Next presentation?

4. Refinement of criteria based on learning

5. Additional coaching if we detect self-sabotaging patterns (nervousness, unrealistic expectations, fear of intimacy)

We don’t guarantee “chemistry” (impossible), but we DO guarantee:

✅ 85%+ compatibility in values ​​and personality
✅ Verified and emotionally available person
✅ Coaching to help you be your best self
✅ Continuous learning that improves every presentation

That’s why we include 3-8 presentations according to the plan, not just one.

The BIG difference between professional matchmaking and traditional agencies: we work on your personal transformation, not just the logistics of dates.

What our psychological coaching includes:

BEFORE each appointment (45 min):

– Identifying specific fears/insecurities
– Role-playing difficult situations
– Anxiety management techniques
– Personalized conversational strategy

AFTER each appointment (30-45 min):

– Analysis of self-destructive patterns
– Identification of unconscious self-sabotage
– Improvement plan for the next presentation

Common blocks we work on:
– Anxious attachment (fear of abandonment, constant need for validation)
– Avoidant attachment (difficulty with intimacy, sabotage when there is a connection)
– Extreme perfectionism (“no one is good enough”)
– Comparison with exes
– Low self-esteem
– Relational trauma (difficult divorce, past infidelity)

For severe blocks: We refer to specialized EMDR or cognitive-behavioral therapy (additional cost).

Philosophy: We don’t introduce you to “the perfect person” who will erase your problems, but we help you be your BEST VERSION when you meet someone compatible.

YES. You have total veto power before each presentation.

How it works:

1. Your matchmaker introduces you to the candidate BEFORE the date (photos, profile, why you are compatible)

2. YOU decide: “Yes, I’m interested” / “I’m not sure” / “I’m not interested”

3. If you decline for a valid reason, it does NOT count as a submission of your quota

Valid reasons (do not count):

✅ Zero basic physical attraction
✅ Objective red flag (he smokes and you hate tobacco)
✅ Fundamental incompatibility (he wants children now, you don’t)
✅ Bad timing (you just ended a relationship)

Questionable motives (we talked):

⚠️ “I don’t like his haircut” (changeable)
⚠️ “I prefer him 2cm taller” (being compatible in everything)
⚠️ “I don’t know, something doesn’t convince me” (could be self-sabotage)

Golden Rule: If they meet 85%+ of the fundamental criteria plus basic physical attraction, we recommend giving them a chance at least once. Real chemistry is only discovered in person.

Reasonable limit: If you reject 10 presentations in a row for superficial reasons, we need to have an honest conversation about unrealistic expectations or fear of commitment.

DATING APPS vs. PROFESSIONAL MATCHMAKING:

Success rate:
❌ Apps: 12% find a serious relationship
✅ Matchmaking: 89% within 12 months

Verification:
❌ Apps: Self-reported, 34% lie
✅ Matchmaking: 5 layers of verification + 3-hour interview

User intent:
❌ Apps: 82% looking for casual encounters
✅ Matchmaking: 100% looking for serious relationships

Who’s looking for:
❌ Apps: You alone (300+ hours/year)
✅ Matchmaking: An expert dedicates 20-30 hours/month to you

Compatibility:
❌ Apps: Photos + bio (150 characters)
✅ Matchmaking: 47 scientific criteria

Support:
❌ Apps: No coaching
✅ Matchmaking: Psychologist available before/after each appointment

Actual cost over 3 years:
❌ Apps: €6,000-€15,000 with no guaranteed results
✅ Matchmaking: €8,000-€15,000 with an 89% success rate

Conclusion: Apps work for 12% (young people 20-30, unlimited time). Matchmaking for professionals 32-60 who value their time.

Yes. We operate in the 5 main Spanish cities with an exclusive local network:

BARCELONA (main hub):
– Largest pool of tech, finance, and creative professionals
– International environment (expats, multinationals)
– 2,000+ active verified profiles

MADRID (second largest city):
– Executive-corporate pool (banking, consulting, legal)
– 1,500+ C-level profiles, managers, entrepreneurs
– More traditional in terms of partner expectations

VALENCIA, SEVILLE, MALAGA:
– Emerging market, less saturated
– Smaller pool but high quality
– Prices 10-20% lower than Barcelona/Madrid

INTERNATIONAL SERVICE:
We are also recruiting in:
– London (Spanish expatriate professionals)
– Paris (luxury sector, culture)
– New York, Miami (Latinos USA)
– Dubai (finance executives)

Total network: 5,000+ exclusive verified profiles in Spain + international network of associated matchmakers.

All psychological assessments are conducted in person at our office (Barcelona, ​​Madrid). We do not accept online-only applications to ensure thorough verification.